“Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don’t even recognize that growth is happening. We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed. It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or a person who explained to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before. Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant. Often the feeling is anything but pleasant. But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening. Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed.”—Alice Walker, Living By The Word
I'm not trying to upset you; I'm just saying something that is true. I think your blog is nice, you have good taste for posting, but you must come to terms with the fact that you won't get the attention you used to get before, simply because you're not attractive in any sense anymore.
ahaha when did you come to judge what is attractive, seriously? get the hell over yourself. i have only been nice to people here, but to say you are not trying to upset me and then say i am not attractive ‘in any sense’ is a fucking joke. get the hell over yourself and your bitter jealousy. i feel hotter than i did at fourteen and i have boys drooling over my fat ass ever since i decided that i was. and if you honestly thought an unhappy, skinny fourteen year old was more attractive compared to how much i have improved and matured in mind and appearance now then i do not know why you even think you can judge or even why i should listen to your salty comments.
you used to like tumblr in 2010-2011 because you used to receive attention. You were super young, skinny and cute. Now, after puberty didn't hit you well, you're just an awkward-looking plump guy. Sorry for that, must be hard.
what the hell? i was trying to think of something to say in retaliation but i really have nothing to say to you, so whatever reaction you desired to create then i hope you are happy? i don’t think i am that at all …
“Fashion design is not about revealing or accentuating the shape of a woman’s body ; its purpose is to allow a person to be who they are. Fashion is interesting because it’s always moving. It always relates to social movement, politics and the current financial situation.”—Rei Kawakubo in i-D, 1992
“Ugly is attractive, ugly is exciting. Maybe because it is newer. The investigation of ugliness is to me, more interesting, than the bourgeois idea of beauty. And why? Because ugly is human. It touches the bad and the dirty side of people.”—Miuccia Prada, T Magazine “Culture” 2013
“In fashion, once you’ve got something, you’re already thinking about what’s next. Maybe it’s a little hysterical. Now every day I’m thinking about change. It’s a constant anxiety that is probably a reflection of society’s anxiety in general. The big deal about fashion is really very recent, this frantic pursuit of newness. It may be a good thing, or a bad thing, but it’s really defining this moment.”—Miuccia Prada